Mine same way, only we live on farm. my off farm jobs help pay for diesel fuel and gas to cut, bale and feed the darn cows and horses on this farm. If he says anything, I just remind him that if he wants, he should start his own slush fund to pay for fuel and gas to feed his animals. He shuts up in a hurry. He knows that I don't spend money for junk or blow it to set out in the pasture like some of the stuff he has. He was surprised when he hauled a load of copper and radiators and other scrap down to the scrap yard at how much he got for it. I told him to get busy and get some more gone before someone else decides to come in sometime when we are gone and come back to a bunch missing. Have had stuff stolen here before. Can't seem to catch the thieves either.