I was divorced twice in my young 20's. Finally found the 3rd one and we have been together for 34 years. We respect each other & ea have our own hobbies. He encourages me in every way with my hobby (quilting) and helps me anytime I need it. Insisted we buy a LA and he uses it. He always asks when shopping for fabric, "Are you sure you are getting enough?" He is an enabler. LOL But I love the guy and think we have this down well. I just pray that we have many many years together to enjoy life. Yes he does have a brother but he is a Pig! LOL