I would do two things. A very very very special top to be finished after the baby is born and passes with his pic in the top. I would make most of it and give it to the mom at the "party" or what have you and after you get the baby's pic then make sure that it is large enough to hug her. that way it will be like the baby is always there to tell her that (s)he love her. and try and get some of the pics of the ultrasound and stuff to put in it. and the other thing would be a large enough wooden box to hold the quilt and a foot or hand print in. decoupage it with pics of the mommy to be and of the family. and inside line it with fabric and if they are religious maybe religious saying fabrics. this she can keep all her "baby" stuff in. I will be praying for the mommy and daddy and family to get through this tragic time.