i've lost 2 babies in similar circumstances.
you might want to contact the hospital in her area and get the number for the bereavement group for child loss.
most of these place have a memorial wall or walk where the names are listed - the fees aren't that high and the money goes to continuation of the bereavement group.
my dear friends purchased 2 bricks on the walk and a bench in the names of my 2 lost daughters.
it was the most wonderful thing that any one could have done for us.
i personally did not want a quilt or other memento items in my home as a daily reminder.
going thru this has been and will always be the most difficult time of my life and to have items in my home as a constant reminder would only keep the wound open.
its hard for people to understand because when you are given this news from the doctor you are given the opportunity to terminate the pregnancy.
as the mother you have to decide which way you want your child to die because either way that is the final end result.
no mother should ever have to choose which way her child shall die.