I know someone already suggested this but in the Karen Kingsbury series, one of the babies only lived a short time. A picture frame, handmade afghan and an outfit was given to the mother before the birth. I liked the idea of the bonnet, outfit, special remembrance box, afghan or quilt being made. I have seen cute little booties patterns made from fleece online. What about that? My heart goes out for this family. If you're able and you found out the funeral home in advance, a contribution could be made to their bill. I am out of ideas but my prayers are for this family.