i have lost 2 babies and while its a nice gesture i would never want the wall hanging.
if you approached me about it i would find it very difficult to say no - because it just seems so ungrateful to reject a gift.
i personally would prefer that you give it to the hospital were my baby died for another family to take home with them and their newborn.
that would mean the world to me.
i make receiving blankets every year and donate them to the hospital were my babies died to honor their short life.
many of my friends have done the same as their way of acknowledging my loss.