Originally Posted by AFQSinc
I would still make it. I have a friend that lost one of her twins (they were born at 27 weeks) and she said that the thing that hurt the most was that people didn't acknowledge the baby that died. She believed that they were doing it because they didn't want to cause her additional pain or upset. The fact of the matter is that the other baby did exist and is loved as much as the one that survived.
I totally agree. Go ahead and make what you started. It will help her to heal. As you go ahead with it, pray for her, the surviving baby and the spot in her heart that will always belong to the baby who didn't live and the Dad. Hem the whole thing with prayers from your heart. God will bless all of your efforts.