First I would contact my nearest Vet Hospital and ask if you could donate some quilts to the vets. Maybe show a few to them. Homespuns, shirtings and plaids are all great for guys, And a small corner block with a heart in it would be cool. I argee about the super patriotic angle of so many organizations. I think those who serve know they are patriots and just want and need something that shows care and appreciation for their efforts.
It is a very thoughtful thing to do and you should try it!
peace to all