It seems in today's world everyone expects gifts, and whatever you do don't let them be inexpensive. A child has a B-day party and all the children need a gift. When I was a kid, only the b-day child got the gifts. If a family has a baby and there are older siblings now you're supposed to give, not only to the baby/parents, but also the older siblings. Have even heard of some weddings giving each guest a little something.
People who do crafts usually appreciate the hand made gifts more because we know it takes not only money but more important someone's time and their hearts(sometimes blood too).
I feel if someone can't gratefully accept any gift given them, they have too much and maybe shouldn't get anything. Make your gifts, give them from your heart, and remember you're giving them a one-of-a-kind treasure(s). If anyone does complain you could always tell them next year you'll give their gift to a charity on their behalf.