My husband does not have any hobbies-he reads and works. His joke is we have an equal partnership-he makes the money and I spend it.
I am retired now and like to do design work with cloth-quilts- and beads-necklaces, earrings. I also love to read. We have less discussions about money now that I am retired than when I worked.
I do all the financials and tax work and have always kept the books. We have joint accounts. It works for us.
My ex was abusive-and we won't even go there!- and I swore never to remarry -but DH wore me down-and I am glad he did. A keeper all the way around!