Originally Posted by valleyquiltermo

I had a really bad dh for my first, that made me really at men. I had married my dad, not a good Ideal.DH of today is a pretty good fellow we have been together for 28 yrs. He don't want me to work off the ranch as the rance needs me to attend to it. He is overseas about 3/4s the year with visit home now and then. I buy what I want, he buys what he wants, if it is a large purchess like a tractor, truck, car or my Gamill quilting machine or my bernina 180 then we decuss it. But we usually get what we want or need. We a parteners and thats they way it is. I told him up front if he wasn't who he was showing me he was, it would come out sooner or later and it would not be pretty if it was later, LOL.
On the other hand I have been in places where the man would be yelling at his wife and I don't have a problem going over and standing beside him or between them.
And once one got physical in front of me I just busted a pespi bottle and he backed off his wife.