I think that handmade gifts are wonderful, because it shows someone cared enough to take the time to do something for you. I made crocheted afghans for my own sons, and for one of their friends who stayed with us so much that I bought one of those double bunk bed deals so he had a good place to sleep. This was when they were in high school, over 20 years ago. I was visiting up North last year, and he told me that he had lost everything in a fire, except that afghan, which he had had with him at the time...and he treasures it still. Handmades are heartmades. If they aren't appreciated by the recipients, then next year, just give them a nice card.