ha, ha. we took in a mamma cat and her two kittens. one was very small with dark around her eyes, like Cleopatra. the other kitty was big, muscular and interested in her mamma's rear end after awhile. both kittens were hard to get near. afraid. i finally got them into the Vet's to be fixed. found out the big kitten was not a boy after all!! he was a she. i'd named her Buddy (for brother) and had to change it to Buddie, then to BuddieRose or Rosie.
the vet is the one i let tell me what the cats are if I can't tell.