32 pages of comments! I didn't read them all, but I am sure they were all to the positive and you now know the wall hanging is really beautiful, very patriotic and most of us would be thrilled to receive such a lovingly pieced work of art!
As someone very early on said, even fathers make mistakes and your dad certainly did! I am really sorry for your hurt. Speaking from experience, when a parent says or does something so very hurtful, you never forget it but you will learn to not focus on that incident but the positives that are in your life.