The answer is to find another doctor. They are all human and have their ways and quirks just like the rest of us but for your own good you need to keep seeking the one that you can work with. I've been to scores of them seeking answers and help and if they can't give me what I need I keep looking without a single pang of guilt. I have a neuropshychologist who helps me with all of my pain issues and he says the same thing. Find someone else who will listen and try to help. You don't have to take any crap off of anyone!!