I had awful time with docs until I started going to an internist. I interviewed him when I wasn't in dire need. I went to a medical social worker before I saw him to help me prepare for interviewing new docs. Made a big difference in the process. I helped my neighbor hook up with a doc. She was very phobic but needed a primary. She struggled with the docs and I helped her bring in an advocate. That ended up very well. In Minn. we can call 211 and talk to someone who will help us figure out who can best help solve the problem. Stepping back helped me get better care. Just a thought.