My mom passed 2 years ago and the night before I was at the funeral home talking to them about the time line for the cemetary and the guy told me that it isn't illegal to take the deceased by private car to the cemetary if you choose. I wish I would have known that a little ahead of time because I would have loved to take mom for her last ride. I know at first it sound kind of weird but I think it would have been an honor for me. I din't think about a quilt but I do have some of her clothes to make a quilt from some day.