I never give a second thought to people that act like jerks. I've told many to leave my home over the years including relatives. I had to have the police escort my BIL out when I told him to go, my DH was not home and he believed I had no right to tell him to leave. I put a restraint order on him the next day. That shook him up I would do that and my DH 'let' me. LOL. He was scared to death his boss would find out. I was told he isn't the caveman jerk as he use to be, which no one cares, SIL divorced him.