Well here's my little contribution to this. Since being back on this board i have noticed alot of what has been discussed in here the groups that seem to be playing games and hijacking posts alot with all the rest of it. I have wanted to post things that would fit well into the guide-lines of being good for everyone but becouse of the actions of others and being a man in here basically a minority i have held off in doing so. My solution to that issue was to stay close to those i know and feel comfortable with in here, also showing pics from a photo sharing site via the chat room has worked well for me. When i noticed the personal diaries section the first thing i did was pm admin saying thanks for that, it seemed to me that its a good idea to give the rest a place to basically be themselves and cut down all the rest of what was going on. I can't offer much of a solution to this i wish admin and the like the best in finding a solution to all of this. Chris