as I said before- apparently admin and the moderators are doing a good job - because I had NO CLUE that any of this was an issue
except I would like that there could be "new" threads for people in the "diary/personal" section when they have something major come up in their lives and they want/need feedback/consoling/prayers
the way it currently is in the diary section - there is no way of knowing there is something major going on - can the person do an edit in the top to signal there is something new? I only read a couple of the first ones that came on and they seemed pretty trivial - hi - glad you're here- etc etc etc - so I really didn't bother to go back - but I would like to offer a sympathetic word or two when appropriate and I know about it