Butterfly, i was going to be silent, but i can't. This is where the problem is. Admin says if he makes a rule, then some push it to the limit, instead of just being considerate. This is what i see happening. You want a set rule, so you can push the limits. Right now, you are showing an example of the problem. You are being overbearing, pushing, demanding examples, demanding your freedom...i have done this in life too, i'm not immune from this...but look at what is happening. You want what you want, you will bully and be overbearing about it, demanding peoples reasons, and yet, not once4 considering, just considering, toning it down, and just being considerate of what others find inappropriate. Even if you know something is within your personal guidlines for allowable, but you know it hurts or offends someone else, is it so much more important for your voice to be heard, than to quietly be considerate of others? There used to be 9occasional jokes on here, i liked them, but now, theres more and more, like some people just need to be loud and overbearing, and ive been offended when i have seen peoples threads being hi-jacked by a few people. Its ok to have fun on someones thread, if the person that started the thread is part of the fun, but to take a serious subject, and then have two or three overbearing people come along, and suddenly be raunchy all over the thread, ive witnessed that a couple of times lately, have not said anythig to anyone until now, but it has bothered me.
I do have more to say on this whole subject, but im finding it too upsetting, so i will prob say more tomorrow.
One of my suggestions to admin is less rules, so rules cant be pushed, but guidlines, more consideration between members, and the only rule is, when my kids would ask me why, if i was really irritated, the answer was, cus i said so. This is your forum admin, and you dont have to 4ever give reasons for anything. I'll say more tomorrow