That's making sense, how you're saying that. So it's not if someone posts something personal, but more the nature of it, if its going to cause a domino effect. So i think i could use some examples of what you are saying, cus i know what you are saying, but dont know of the right examples for each. So could i give a couple of examples, and could you explain how each of those would best work out? I'm going to example two sensitive topics, only because i really dont know how this works. Ok, so Henry lost his grandma last week, and now lost his aunt today, and so he has been posting about that in general. Well, he's been away, so doesnt know about diaries either. But my question is, if you implement the above ideas, what is the guideline for this? Would this topic cause a domino effect, and 10 other people start threads that their grandma and aunt all died that week? I'm not being snarky, im being dumb, i really hope you can give examples, because from what you said above, it isnt clear to me where that should go. What about Shadow posted shes back now, and she had to put her cat down. Shadow has been away too, and prob doesnt know about the changes. Even if she did know, my question is, not where should she have put it, because you havent made the new rules yet, i'm asking, with the guidelines you have above, where would her post go? Would hers cause some kind of downward spiral? What about someone announcing they have quit smoking? What kind of spiral would that create, or would it? I just really dont understand and hope you can help explain this ide3a more. Thanks