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I am a member of a medium size guild (cap at 75 members-just recently raised from 55 members)and thoroughly enjoy it. I was a member from the very beginning so that might make a difference. Everyone is very friendly. I think the smaller the guild the easier it is to make friends. I am also a member of two smaller 'friendship' groups all consisting of my best friends. Loads of fun. If you don't want to join a large guild, try starting a small "Bee" group of like-minded people and meet at each others homes.