They are heavy handed with the delete button and in many cases play favorites. As a result, they have lost a ton of fun participants (myself included). The forum is boring and gives no incentive to return to it. I'd hate like heck for that to happen here.
I'm aware of such possibility, and I certainly don't want that to happen. That's why I'm trying to get some feedback instead of simply making the rules more strict and asking the mods to enforce them with more prejudice.
If I see a post for prayers, I go in and read what the problem is. I may or may not offer prayers -- that's MY choice.
If I see a joke, I may or may not go in to read it....if it's one I've read before, so what -- I've had friends tell me jokes I've heard before.
Multiply that by 20 or 50 topics and you begin to see the problem.