I know first hand about how it is OUT there. I have had my name blackened in the cat world, world wide and have to live with the consequences daily. I have had hate mail from many different forums, (not this one) and even private hate emails and thru my website, not 1 person asked me what happened and I am not going to get in a slanging match to try to explain to people who don't want to listen. I am so glad I am a member of a forum like this one that uplifts not put downs.