I could certainly see why you asked here, there are sooooo many to choose from! In my opinion, and it is only my opinion, but I have and do own many machines and brands.....Janome gives the most bang for the buck, the 6600P, 7700 Horizon and such. The 6500 is a wonderful machine but it does not have the accufeed. Steer clear of Singer, they are all plastic and not what they used to be. Brother makes many good machines, so many you would have a hard time deciding. Brother's Project Runway machines are supposed to be good. You start spending big bucks for a name when you get into Berninas, Pfaffs and Vikings. This is only my opinion....what a lucky lady you have to have a husband willing to go through this with her. Also, you could ask her...in some sneaky way? Best of luck!
Michelle