I have a brother that I have seen in a few years, he was in town this summer and never called or came over to either my sisters or my home. It's his lost, when it comes to being that he will need someone, no one will be there for him. I also have a friend who has just stopped talking or seeing me, this has happened twice with her, so as far as I'm concerned this friendship is over for good. I don't need to be hurt again.