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this xmas will be 19 years since i talked to my dad. he remarried to a women he knew for 2 weeks. as long as they were happy okay but then he came over a few weeks after DH went overseas to tell me that nothing existed before him and his new wife (he was part of her family now )and that included me and my family. he has done this before with my bio mom and my sister he took me off the stairs and left her sit there and i never got to see her again until i was 42 years old. with all the things he has done i realize he is the one with the problems. others that have done some of things he has were sent to jail so he figures he got away with it.but i tthink in the end he will get whats coming to him. in the meantime i've learned they're are some people that are just not good and it is okay not to have anything to do with them. the only thing is that the people that know me better believe the lies he tells to them, that hurts.