I used to hate binding too - but I am finding it easier and easier - you really need to find your own way of making it work. I have had different people show me their way and it works for them - I take a little from each person and make it my own. I am proud to say that I no longer hate binding - however, I do have some friends who insist that it must be done their way - too bad I made it my way..Keep on trying - it will come. I have found that you tube videos are very helpful.