I love charity crafter's response! It reminds me of a Utube video where a guy took ladies panties and made a quilt. He used only sexy panties (no Granny panites according to him) and it was hilarious! Sometimes I think we've got to look at what the quilt says of the quilter (in charity's case it does sound like it helped him work through his grief). Right now I have the same dilemma; My Mother was working on a cross-stitch quilt when she died and told me she was going to give it to me when it was finished. I got the top from my Sister a couple of months ago and it's done in dusty blue and pink - only two colors. It is so not me. The blocks are sewn together without sashing and these are preprinted blocks with the hand-quilting lines already drawn. I had every intention of dividing it and making a quilt for my Sister and I before I saw it. Now I don't know what to do with it because I know it's not my Sister's colors either.