all I want is for people to be honest. I would rather make them a quilt that they would like than give them a closet one. I tell people this when I give them the quilt. if they dont like it then let me know and i can make one that better suits them. I am actually getting ready to look for fabric for tow baby quilts. one for a baby to use when it is bigger and one for the baby to be snuggled in. I am going to take the mommy to joanns near by and see what she would like to do, they are not going to find out the sex of the baby till it is born, for the bed quilt.