I have been in the homes of many people who are very proud of the way their homes are decorated, but I wouldn't want to live in them. I wouldn't want them to come redecorate my home. Their taste just is not compatible with mine. The quilts they have draped on their sofas would not look right on my sofa and they wouldn't like mine. I definitely feel individual preferences need to be considered. If someone loves me enough to make me a quilt, I feel they should love me enough to find out what type of quilt I would love to have. Obviously there are two distinct schools of thought on this subject and I doubt if they will ever intersect.