I agree 100%!!! OMG, I hoped she listened to you! All of my quilts is to be used and loved. I tell everyone who received them they are to use them. They listen too. I get the greatest enjoyment to hear them tell me they use it and love it.
Just last week, my new DIL told me she uses her quilt every nite and loves it. My other DIL, was telling me that my gs and her play I spy on the little I spy quilt I made him a couple of years ago. She said" they love it" She got all teary eyed when I gave her a large lap quilt last year for Christmas! I could tell she loved it!