Thanks everyone for you kind words and thoughts. I think we have been close as sibling, because our Mom, God rest her soul, never knew how to share or express love, so we turned to each other. She had Altzheimers and after 3 years, it actually was a blessing to see her go. Oh, just so you know we are human, my sister said if it had been a larger amount, she might have had second thoughts. She was just kidding of course.