Men can be such babies and usually it is us that let them be that way.....lol! Gently tell him what you want and why you want it and let it ride. I tend to just say "forget it" because I don't like the confrontation but I am slowly realizing that I have missed out on somethings that I really wanted or wanted to do so I am learning to forgo the "forget it" mentality and be honest with myself and voice what I want. Gets me in trouble sometimes...but I am finding that it is worht it....lol!