Could you ask him for his help in very distinct, specific ways? Give him plans for custom work that you have chosen, solicit help with painting in your color. Thank him for his help and interest. You have something meaningful that you love to do--perhaps he: a. wants to help you, b. wants to be with you, or, c. is feeling useless and unfocused.
I'd give a good bit for a husband who would help with a project, even if he did need a collar, reins and blinkers.
Last edited by Greenheron; 01-22-2012 at 08:40 AM.