First of all I have to say I feel for you. I also agree with the ones who are saying it is YOUR room and stand firm. Next, I have to say that by page 5 I realized how lucky I am to have my hubby. I have a lovely sewing room; he does whatever improvements I need with no comments. He knows it's my room and does what he can to make me happy. We have problems in other ways, but he's still a keeper. (It will be 41 years for us this November.)