bless your heart--this is why so many of us even on the quilt board don't list locations, details, etc. i have even curbed activities on things like ancestry.com, ellis island.com, etc because anybody with half a brain can find out details about anyone online, and then check sites like those to find out things like your mother's maiden name, your father's employer, etc. while i love that we can research online, we have to be so very careful about the info we post, or that we share.
when i teach my students in anesthesia, i kiddingly, but half seriously tell them, "cultivate your paranoia. it will be your best friend." in medical terms, it just means that if something doesn't feel right, pay attention to it immediately. in life, same thing. be careful, folks. be very careful!