As I mentioned the first time I thought she just got busy. Second time I reminded her that we agreed upon a certain date because I needed a few days to finish the quilt for gift giving. The third time same thing so I guess it is a done deal that I need to look elsewhere especially since our guild is having a show in May and she probably had many quilts to do.
She has been doing longarm quilting for at least 20 years and I really was taken back upon her not notifying me there would be a delay but it really seems she just forgot about it. I've seen some posts by quilters that they have a pile of quilts to get to so maybe that's how she works.