My Grandmother is in nursing home and I am always finding other residents clothing and other things in her room. I always take them back to the nurses station so when I can't find something of hers I go straight to the station. One day all her panties were missing and she didn't have a pair on. I do her laundry and there was none in the hamper. Go figure. Come to find out she had a accidents and they were in the laundry room. I also fear that one of her quilts will come up missing, she was a quilter and had 3 quilts that she swapped out on her bed at home. So when she went to nursing home, I put one on her bed there and keep the other 2 at my house. I rotate them when they need to be washed.
I am so sorry to hear that Granny is not doing well. I hope that it is ok to share a little personal info about my Grandmother here. She also quit eating and drinking. She told the dr. that she had not given up, so she adjusted some of her meds and gave her appetite stimulate. 2 days later I go to visit and she is sitting in chair drooling and can't wake up. I called for help to get her to bed and she was lifeless. I had them call for ambulance to transport her to ER. By this point she did not even know who she was. Well, come to find out she was severly hydrated and had an urinary infection that had gone septic. She is better now. So if your Granny has urinary problems might be something to check on. BTW - I told the dr. I thought she was dehydrated and asked her if a urinary tract infection might be the problem - but what do I know.
I will keep Granny and your family in my prayers and thoughts. Please don't stress over this quilt being lost and just focus on enjoying the time you have left with Granny. (hugs)