God Bless every one who gives to others.
There has been so many pros and cons on this topic. I can see both sides. I think we should be thankful that A child,not the child you thought would get a quilt. Sometimes we are too wrapped up about what WE want,maybe this was the way it was suppose to be.
We donate,we my husband works for the fabric and I sew the quilt. We give to the charity that we think will most need it and then it is in GOD"S hands to who receives it.
When I give a gift and someone chooses to give it to some one who likes it better I am not longer upset by this. The person gave it to someone who could really enjoy it and maybe that brought them Joy ,I have learned that if I brought them joy by sharing my gift then that is a gift too.