My executor would be in a mess so my best friend will be helping out. There is hidden money for a tasteful memorial and my friend knows exactly where the money is and what to do. She also knows where my address book is. That way she can contact my online friends as well so they know what happened. I also have a long letter done kind of journal fashion for the executor. He's pretty savy about the costs of things since he loves a bargain and I know I can leave him in charge of any estate sale. Since my relatives all live far from me I've ear marked those items to be sent to them. Small momentos for the most part. The rest will be sold and the money paid to my one daughter.