QuiltE - You are making perfect sense. Very clear instructions! Thanks.
I've got some good news. DMIL is out of the hospital! I even called her caregiver & was glad to hear that she is getting up & walking around. The Assisted Living Facility where she is is wonderful! It's a house with 5 bedrooms. One of those rooms has 3 beds & the others have 2 beds. Except for DMIL's. She has a private room & has had it since Jan. She is more comfortable now that she is in her own room. The way they care for her is awesome. We also have a nurse that comes & checks on her, & an aid to come & give her a bath. They are from Inhome Care. The caregivers would bath her but, we had already set up the aid when she lived with us. I m surprised at how tired I am! Thanks Ya'll for listening to me go on & on & on.