Kim,
I wouldn't waste all that time and effort into making a quilt for them if they both wouldn't treasure or appreciate it. You could make one, if your heart leads you in that direction, and then donate it for a raffle letting them know that is what you had done. Another good cause would be to make one for a church. It could be used for what I call a 'sermon quilt'. The pastor would have it put on the floor for the little ones to sit on while he is giving the children's sermon. It makes the kids stay in one place instead of swinging from the communion rail or running behind the pulpit.
Just some ideas.
Chris from AZ