For whatever reason that you have allowed this to be the case in the past, remember that you are you and your sibling is your sibling. Just shine from your own candle.
Everyone has talent in my family too, great talent. But, we have all different styles and mediums. Just be kind to yourself and do it. Enjoy the process and finish those quilts. Then spend some time staring and enjoying your work. Most of the "cure" is recognizing that there was a problem and addressing it positivly!
There are videos at youtube on binding. I suggest that maybe if you watch a few, you would get motivated and feel confident to finish them up. There are also great books out on the process of machine quilting now. They are inspiring and informative and might help with the finishing. I think once you finish one, you will see how artsy and fun it is.
You are a individual. Remember that and value your work and talent.
Last edited by RedGarnet222; 04-06-2012 at 08:37 AM.