I understand how you feel, when we grow up feeling inferior or hurt when we reach out, not putting our selves out there for someone to hurt us again feels safe. I can finish quilts because they are mine and I don't have to share unless I want to, but I do not make phone calls or send cards or write letters. I feel safer just not reaching out. I know no one is going to be unkind any more but this thing inside holds me back..If I do call my children the first thing they ask is something wrong. I am okay with it because it is just me, and understanding why I don't reach out helps. Not finishing a quilt is your business and you never have to finish if you don't want to. Quilting is your journey go as far as makes you happy
