I am self taught also - I find the videos and tutorials online help alot - then I learn by doing it and figuring it out - that is part of the process that I love - I have a friend who has been quilting for many years and sometimes she appoints herself as my "teacher" - some of the things she wants to teach - I am not interested in - I think if I went to a class - I want to learn what the technique is - there are many ways to construct a quilt - everyone has a different process - that is what gets me - there is only one way and you must follow this exactly - Not for me. Maybe I come up with my own shortcut - that doesn't mean it won't work - If you are paying her and you are not meshing well - I would not sweat it and find someone who works for you or learn by doing. Good luck and don't let anyone get you down - its supposed to be fun and enjoyable.