My mom is the same way- she changes her decor all the time. the couch is one way and then next time we visit its on the opposite side.. Paintings and nicknacks are swapped out, moved and changed all the time. but I give her a lot of credit, my quilts are always there.. they may not be on the bed all the time, but she pulls them out when needed for them or family members... So dont give up on her just yet Peckish...