Admin,
Do you truly believe you are going to have a message board where there are no complaints? It's not going to happen and you know it. Someone with a "control" issue will always be about complaining about something in order to fulfill their....."see I got what I wanted" urge.
This thread is going around in circles and I would think that you need to implement whatever it is you're going to implement before you drive a lot of the good people here away with this nonsense.
Sorry if that offends but it is the truth as I see it.