I wish I had a clue as to who my birth mother was, I only know I was adopted . When my grandmother told me i was adopted I was 7. later I learned what adopted meant. I was always to embarrased to ask my parents. I Have been twice to court house and secretary wouldnt let me talk to the judge , saying I need a birth name, and that everyone i am searching for is probably deceased. Therefore, I only know I am adopted. I did have a wonderful life, many cousins, was well provided for and I accept the fact I have no distant history, so I cant do any geneology. Happy in Okla